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If he is that important to you and your friends are that important to you, then they are going to have to meet at some point, right? Definitely explain to him what the weekend will entail and see what he thinks. My bf was president of his fraternity in college and has nothing but wonderful memories of it, but being around "all the girls" in that setting would've been way too much for him for a first time meeting. Just be ok with it if he doesn't want to go--relationships are about compromise and if this is hard for him, then go and have fun with your friends, and have them meet him another time at one of your smaller gatherings. Then the next time you have a big reunion, he'll know other guys to hang out with and they can go off and have some beers if they need to!
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