You must realize that the first year of college is a big adjustment...for some it's an even bigger one than for others! Perhaps this girl is lonely and just doesn't know if she fits in yet. Perhaps she's busy. I know I wasn't sure about the choice I made my first semester...about school, the sorority, everything. All my friends left for the same University, and I was stuck at home, working, going to school. I had to make new friends...but luckily that's where Chi Omega helped. It was hard at first, because I didn't think it was possible for a group of girls to accept me; no questions asked.
I came around, but it does take some time for others. Be patient with her. She might have other problems going on in her life that you all don't know about ` and that she doesn't feel comfortable talking about.
Hootie
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