Originally Posted by als463

You didn't know. Don't worry about it and please realize many of the people here on GC are here to give other Greeks encouragement. I know that none of the above posters were being mean and had some good advice for you. I hope this doesn't deter you from wanting to stay on GC because the above posters, as well as, many of the people here are incredible sources of advice and all around great people. Good Luck with I-Week and know that you can always PM me (or any other Phi Mu, for that matter) if you need specific advice on Phi Mu or your chapter.