[33girl]

If she's that good of a friend, she should understand about rush.

I can't tell from your post if you only *chose* to go to 2 sororities' events, or if there were only 2 sororities holding events. If it was the latter, and you didn't get a bid, the chances are very very very slim that you're going to get one now.

If it was the former, and you blew off the other 4 sororities' events for whatever reason, they're probably not going to be too high on you now to begin with - and missing this fall's events for the concert will not win you any points.