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Originally Posted by gee_ess
In my experience with recruitment, fine tuning conversation skills AND knowing your pnm data (you know she was a basketball player in hs? Then talk to her about basketball) is key.
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I have not gone through recruitment yet. However what would make me feel connected to girls has to do with those two things.
If there are lags in a conversation it would make me feel awkard and since I know I will be overanalyzing EVERYTHING I would take it as they dont like me.
If they KNOW things about me, then it makes it feel like they WANT me. And I think thats what most PNMs look for. To feel wanted and equalled not intimidated. At least I can speak for me and my friends. If you can say "Hey! I heard you were a StuGov President? What was your favorite dance ya'll planned?" That will make me open up and feel welcomed.
But thats just me.
