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Also keep in mind that just because an organization is open to accepting married members does not mean that you will get a bid.


If you are basically looking for girlfriends and more of a social life, you really should look into another group, either on or off campus...like Junior League which is geared more toward married women. Just joining a sorority does not give you automatic friends. You still have to have things in common with the girls, and things to bond over in order to make a friendship. Just joining a sorority does not guarantee you'll have friends. Like someone above stated, I'm not sure that I would have been so accepting of a 25 year old married friend when I was 18 and just starting college - there just aren't that many common interests.