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Even if the town is dry or whatever, there will most likely still be alcohol involved on some level, even if it's just hanging out with a fraternity at their house.

Not saying that women and men in Greek groups are all lushes, but there will be men and there will likely be drinking. Most husbands are not supercool witht that. They just aren't, unless he is a fraternity man himself.

Also, there are alot of fun activities during the New Member period that are meant to help you bond with your class and meet other girls. I know that we typically had an activity or event EVERY NIGHT during certain weeks. Your chapter will most likely have a great deal planned for you as a new member, which WILL take time from your hubby. You might want to be sure that he is ok with not seeing his wife alot during those times.

I'm not trying to be negative, but these are all things you need to consider. My chapter pledged a married young lady at one point, and she ended up quitting because she didn't realize that it was going to take so much time away from her husband.

It's best that you understand now that sororities are quite a time commitment, as opposed to joining and depledging later because "you didn't know."