[budger1984]

The city of the school I attend does not sell alcohol, so I don't think alcohol will be involved. If it is, I don't have to get drunk or even drink for that matter. I can be friends with guys and still be married. My husband knows that he won't be able to come to certain events and he was okay with that. Men are everywhere regardless of whether or not they are in a fraternity. If he trusts me to go somewhere without him, I don't know why he would care if it's to a club, a mixer, or a restaurant.

Now, the reason I want to pledge a sorority is because I want to meet new people and become more involved on campus. I have a small handful of friends that I have known forever, but I feel like I have only remained friends with some of them because I feel guilty for changing since I've known them so long. I want lifelong friends that are fun, energetic, and really care for one another. I want to work with charities, participate in on-campus activities, and as I said, have friends. My friends I have right now are wonderful people, and I love them. But, they like to stay home with their children, and I don't have kids. I think it would be nice to be part of something bigger than myself. I don't have any sisters, and I've always wanted them.

What I want to get out of a sorority are friends, a sense of family on campus, sisters, and people who like being involved with our University and people who enjoy philanthropy.