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Originally Posted by AOII_LB93
No, however it helps to have something in common, and most 18 year olds don't hang around with married people on a regular basis. I also don't know that as a collegiate I would have been very forgiving of someone who withheld that they were married to get a bid and then threw that information out there after the fact....Oh wait, I dealt with that and my chapter was really pissed at the girl who did that, because she kept it a secret until initiation. We all wondered why she never came to events that weren't required, and why she seemingly had no interest in some of the guys who would hang out.
She also waited until after that to tell us she was prego as well...it was a great situation. 
Do what you want, but realize 18. 19 and 20 year olds aren't always the most open-minded when it comes to things like this. |
I have no intentions of keeping anything a secret... I would want to be open and honest with these people. I just won't go on and on about being married.