James - lol - we have gone through this before. Some small and medium size ladies still have big ones. Its genetic.
I feel the pain too - I see those cute little backless shirts, and my motto is - if I dont own a bra that works with the shirt/dress - I dont buy it. I could go without a bra, but I dont want to look like a porn star. I want that $5000 surgery too - my ideal size is a small C