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Originally Posted by lovepinkxo
I do have a life.. Not bashing any of you GC-ers who are constantly on the boards. There are hundreds of threads.
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Lovepinkxo-I want you to know that when I saw your name, as a Phi Mu, I didn't think you were interested in Phi Mu as much as I thought you might be looking at Chi Omega. Your name gives off the impression that you are hoping to join them. Maybe you were trying to say "XO" as in "hugs and kisses" but, that is how it comes off on this board. I'm pretty surprised no one else said anything about it...maybe I'm just being picky.
As far as your comment about having a life-it DID come off as telling people on this board that you think we have NO LIFE because we choose to write back to people on the forum. I hope that is not what you meant but, in order to not feel as though you are getting eaten alive on the board, please consider what you are saying and the way in which you say it.
As stated earlier, being involved in various clubs and organizations will help you during recruitment. Knowing a girl was willing to get involved really spoke to me about her character. Keeping your grades up is very helpful and should also be your #1 priority.
Don't be THAT GIRL who writes hateful or stupid messages on her Facebook or MySpace page, thinking no one will pick up on it. Don't make a "name" for yourself in high school or while at college because it CAN and it WILL follow you. Keep an open mind.
Good Luck!