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I'm going to try my best to tell you about sorority life as no frills as possible. Yes there is drinking in greek life, and yes there is drinking in college life in general. But if you are really averse to it you don't have to be a part of it!
Many of the sisters in my house, as well as sisters in other houses, do not drink. However they still have fun at social events (many of which are non-alcoholic, and many of which are limited to sisters only). No one pressures them to drink, because we are a sisterhood, and we respect their decisions. Also, at every social event we host (and I'm assuming other greek organiztions do the same) we have what's called "sober sister". She's either risk management, or a sister who has simply chosen to take on that duty for the night. I hope this shows you not all sorority girls are only out to drink and party.
You've heard the old adages "all work and no play makes jack a dull boy" and "work hard, play hard". That's how it is in greek life. We work hard in our philanthropic endeavors, and so naturally we also like some time to play. Sororities (and fraternities) work hard to promote their philanthropy, raise funds for it, and to better it through many different ways.
The Panhellenic rules you quoted are indeed true, there are certain restrictions as to the types of events that can be held. Are you sure this evidence you've seen was taking place at a greek sponsored event and not just a party? I know many fraternity houses hold open parties that have a very different atmosphere than the fraternity/sorority parties being held. You should really look hard at the evidence to determine what is really going on. Just like my house has many girls who don't drink, we have some girls who really like to party... But that doesn't mean they aren't great girls!
I think you should at least give it a chance, it sounds like you're really interested, and it also sounds that you are an intelligent girl. I think you would make a great asset to a sorority on your campus. Maybe you should call or email the Panhellenic office at your school if you're still having concerns. They should be able to give you a better idea of what sorority life on your campus is actually like.
I hope this helps you out!
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