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i think the card should not have been in her purse. i am in a serious relationship and my boyfriend and i have been through several arguments about items left around by mistake. i was looking through one of his photo albums and his ex's photo was in the back, tho i didnt flip out, i was pissed off because i felt like it shouldnt have been there. but i have made my own mistakes: once he was looking for paper and found cards that i had put in my drawer of an ex of mine back at school.
i think its ok to hold on to keepsakes, mine are in my room at my mom's home. they are simply keepsakes of times gone by but times that have taught me things and hold meaning. but i dont think they belong in my purse or in the apartment i share with him.
i think women and men should be mindful of each other's feelings and think about how they would feel if the roles were reversed.
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