Everyone here brings super comments/advice based on countless years of experience and I enjoy reading everything. What I would like to share is something that I know from my experience.
The pnms that standout, are heavily recuited by top chapters, and wanted by numerous groups will have people on the inside getting that rec for them no matter how hard they have to work. If it is required by the org to have that rec for that pnm, they will find it! They will not do this for every pnm coming through as they don't want every pnm and it is too much work, but the pnm's they want -- they will do it!
I do agree in part with AnchorAlumna. If the sponsorship chair and her group are doing their jobs properly they have the alum connections and they will find that rec. They are not going to let that pnm they want slip by because of it. I have seen it happen and they work like crazy to secure one. That is their job. When you are competing with other houses to get that pnm, you will get that rec. It is almost like having bragging rights in the end. I have seen it time and time again. They will not lose the chance to pledge her to "XYZ" over her not securing a rec.
Competition is fierce at some top schools to pledge certain girls and that is what the org works hard for over the entire year. Looking back, it is serious business and a lot of hussle. You won't do this for 1500 prospects, but you will hussle for those amazing 50 you want. I have seen it happen and it is worth that final outcome in the end. You just feel so amazing on bid day when you see your work pay off.
I am getting excited thinking about it. LOL
