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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
We can't really say what your chances are.
However, I will say that you could be setting yourselves up for a potential disappointment if you guys are ONLY interested in being in the SAME SORORITY.
If you're a "package deal", it is going to affect where you get invited back because some chapters may only be interested in ONE of you.
Also, consider what happens if one of you likes a chapter and the other doesn't? Is one of you ok with potentially ending up in a chapter you don't like just so the 2 of you can be together?
Where I went to school, the "package deal" thing tended to work out if the twins liked all the same chapters. But it caused a problem if Twin A didn't like the same chapters as Twin B. Or Twin A didn't get invited back to the same chapters as Twin B.
What would you do then?
For what it's worth, I know a set of twins who used college and recruitment as their first opportunity to establish their own identities, by pledging different chapters.
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100% agree with everything you said here!
I also know of a set of sisters (not twins - born a year apart) that rushed together. They were very very very close. They both pledged different chapters and are still close as sisters.