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Old 07-07-2009, 10:47 AM
Zillini Zillini is offline
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I have had experience with twins from the sorority side. Honestly if you have your heart set on pledging the same Chapter, you're choices may be limited. Different people will be recruiting you. One active/Chapter might fall in love with one twin, but not the other. Or vice versa, one twin might love a Chapter, but the other twin doesn't. Then again, a Chapter may love both and you two may love them. You never know.

My advice to all twins is to inform the Chapters if they are a "package deal" or if they are willing to pledge different Chapters. What you both are willing to accept or not accept may factor into the Chapters' decisions to extend invitations and bids. If you don't tell them you are only interested in pledging together you run a higher risk of it not happening. Or if you don't tell them you are willing to split up, they may assume you won't.

Ultimately the decision is up to the two of you whether you say anything or not. Keep in mind though that in the end no Chapter can guarantee a bid -- not for twins, not for legacies, not for anyone.
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