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Yes, it upset her. And since each person's threads are searchable I wrote about this issue about a year after it happened. (I am not adding yet undiscovered reasons why my daughter's rush was what it was). Since rush at SC is the first week of school when kids are moving around classes etc. attendance in class can be very fluid.
On the last night before Pref, after my daughter had been rushed by the President etc. at her favorite house she told the girl who was rushing her (and the same major in the same class that the sister had missed due to rush) that she would be glad to give her the notes for the first class (it met once a week), the girl yelled in horror, "YOU WENT TO CLASS AND DIDN'T GO TO RUSH!?" That, and another reason that I mentioned at a different time was the reason she wasn't invited to Pref.
(And lest you think that I am one of those helio mommies who makes excuses, despite "what happens in meetings stays in meetings"...no, not when your best friend was in the meeting and the families have been friends for 50 years.)
Yes, Panhellenic should help (they tried to rearrange and contact), her rho chis tried to help but neither can control what happens in voting meetings. Reality bites.
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