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					Originally Posted by CaitFSU  I am not the most outgoing of persons, and while I am improving upon this, I'm not sure I could stand above the other candidates to get a bid. However, the benefits of sorority life, the friends that will be formed, the philanthropic opportunities, the networking opportunities, and the opportunity to have a support system as I grow into a more confident individual is certainly something that I would like. | 
	
 Sounds to me that you have the right idea, a sorority has been the best thing I have ever done.  It allows you to overstep the boundaries that you felt held you back in high school or wherever you come from.  If you are going to be financially ready to take this step, it is completely worth it. I wouldn't worry about other candidates, just worry about yourself. Stop comparing yourself to what you think sororities want and you will find you have a better chance of finding the house that is right for you.