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A married girl pledged my chapter the semester after I did.

To the OP: As a married mother who went early alum, I empathize with your desire to still feel a part of the group, and want to find time and inclusion in the things other girls your age are a part of and able to enjoy. On the other hand, the words of those who've already posted are true: your priorities now rest elsewhere. There are plenty of other organizations available that will allow you to fulfill your need for social interaction and/or philanthropic participation. Give those a try.