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Originally Posted by KSigkid
That's the thing - when I think of the "limiting factors," so to speak, in my life, the first things that come to mind are law school and work. Maybe I'm looking at things the wrong way, but I can't think of a way in which I've been limited by my marriage.
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I mean, you're limited in the sense that it's generally frowned upon to grab a hot tub full of hookers in Vegas once you're married - but certainly you can probably live that dream if you're so inclined. It's just a matter of division of assets at that point.
The term "bucket list" makes me want to put a bucket onto my head and bang it repeatedly with a hammer - but the thought of 'limiting' myself in any way based on something as simple and as temporal as "life situation" kind of sucks (barring kid situations, which are more give-and-take than anything). Maybe I'm a bit capricious, but if I want to do something, I usually just do it - whether that's skydiving, bar rats, travel, cardio kickboxing or eating an entire cheese pizza, just for me.
On the other hand, I would actually laugh if a woman said to me, "before we get married, I have all of these things I want to do, so I'd better get cracking!" Yep, looks like you better, Ms. I Need Life Milemarkers To Fill In An Imaginary List. I'll grab a drink.