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Originally Posted by gymluv625

so my school normally does fall rush and i missed recruitment for fall 08 .. and a few of the sororities did spring rush and i participated but didnt get a bid. the day after one of the sisters friend mentioned to me that alot of the sisters wanted to give me a bid but didnt because i had rushed with 3 other friends who they werent going to give bids to and thought i wouldnt accept my bid if my friends didnt get a bid. i really like the sorority and sisters have been nothing but nice to me since, like always saying "hi" etc.. i was wondering the if i rushed in fall 09 is it "legal" to possibly rush the same sorority

If you rushed, and did not receive/accept a bid during spring recruitment, you are eligible to participate in formal recruitment this fall.

Allow me to be a little honest (just my opinion):

I'd take this sister's story with a grain of salt because it might not be the truth.

Generally speaking, if a sorority is interested in you and has spots available, they will bid you (whether they are interested in your friends or not).

Her explanation of why you weren't given a bid sounds like someone trying to come up with a reason that doesn't hurt your feelings (and doesn't reveal private membership selection info).

If you're going to go through recruitment, keep your options open and don't have your heart set on this sorority.