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Originally Posted by exlurker
Huh ? Do you mean that as a condition of being that fraternity's sweetheart, a woman has to agree not to become
a sorority member? Sounds overly restrictive to me.
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No, I was saying that she has never joined a sorority, nor does she have interest. I didn't mean she cant, so much as she hasn't.
Now I can't speak for all small schools, but with my school being so small, and greek life being respectfully as small, (maybe 60 females, and 180 males in the whole Greek life) I find the big little process can equally pull us together and break us apart.
We always have a good time at big little parties, and hang out, girls enjoy getting little brothers, guys enjoy getting little sisters. BUT the issue comes when you don't care (on a personal level) for the fraternity/sorority you get paird up with that particular semester. Perhaps you didnt get your boyfriends/girlfriends orginization, perhaps you got an ex. But in the end, those who find it
fun and exciting keep it fun and exciting, those, like me who could care less, never talk to their big brother cause they're not fond of him. Also, being a small campus, big/little parties make the campus EVEN smaller. By your second year in greek life, who don't you know. Because by that point, party rotation has put you with everyone. Is that good or bad? Depends on the person. I dont look at Big Littles here as -- here go find your husband -- I see it as another reason to hang out, get to know eachother and have fun. I just got stuck with a big brother I can't tolerate. But I love my little brother, he's awesome!