i'm not trying to start anything, but i think it should be left to the individual as to whether or not he or she wants to date within his/her organization's family. when i was becoming i was always told to say 'no' to dating a sigma. of course, i did my own thing. i have dated a brother here and a brother there and each person was special in his own way. no, everything was not perfect, but it wasn't something i ran back and told my entire chapter about. nor was it something i ran and told his chapter about. when things didn't workout we simply went our separate ways. however, i still remain friends with these individuals and they are still cool with me. why? because we are all adults and we act as so.