If Alpha Psi wants to have a social with you, perhaps you should share your concerns about the TP incident with their president. Tell her the truth. You are a bit wary because of what happened and you want to make sure that the social is handled in a mature and responsible way. For one thing, if they are trying to play you, they will be damaging their chances to go national....Don't tell them that though, 'cause that might seem like a threat or something.
How are you going to have a social in a month? Does your school last a long time? I know that my school only has 2 more weeks before finals.
I am so proud of everything you have accomplished. I don't know how you do it! It is very admirable.