Great list Zillini! I wish every alumna would read this.
One variation:
- Please DON'T send them for someone you know would not be asset just to be polite to that PNM or her mother. Would you write a recommendation for someone for a job who wasn't qualified or had a bad reputation? Why would you do so for your own sisterhood?
I would say DO send a sponsor form, but don't sign it. Add your name and contact info, but don't sign it, and add a Post-It note saying "please contact me." Then you can verbally explain why you do not endorse this particular candidate. Many forms have a check box noting that you do NOT recommend the person.
Otherwise...expect your chapter to pledge her!
