[truelies]

We had this same problem with a girl over this past year. Since we have deferred recruitment she was not able to go through the recruitment process until this spring. From the fall-spring she would tell my sisters (as well as other organizations) how she was going to pledge them. She also did not fit in with us and was also clingy/touchy feely and her behavior was making sisters uncomfortable. We invited her back to our preference (tea) but luckily for us, and her, she realized she did not fit in with us and declined the invite and is now a sister of another sorority and seems to be doing quite well.