Two of those members have tried to explain it to her. The other two are our newest members; so, they just knew that she didn't uphold the standards of our organization. This girl is known for bad mouthing anyone she can behind their backs; so, we're more afraid of damage control than hurting her feelings.

We also stopped inviting her to events, but she would hear about them from other people. Would it be in bad taste to ask her to not attend our events because they are for women we are potentially giving bids too? Or should we just allow her to continue to come to these events? I feel like her coming to our events hinders women from being more interested in us. They are under the impression that this girl is in our chapter (because she has been telling people she's "practically in Sigma") and they don't want a woman like that as a sister.