Amy, its a good thing you're Amy XXXX and not Amy XXX...lol.
BTW, we have the same last name. Mine is "XXXX", too. What a conincidence.
When I get married I'll prolly take his last name, though reluctantly. However, if we ever got divorced I'd dump his name faster than old shrimp. Using my maiden name as my children's middle name is not a bad idea.