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Old 05-11-2009, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by ASTalumna06 View Post
I know of one sister who became friends with as many alumnae as possible through Facebook, and ended up talking to one of them who got her a job after she graduated.

And I have to ask... how long have you been a member? Did you just join this semester? Because if so, remember that there will be many people who come after you. Maybe the chapter will gain some different new members and completely turn around come fall.

But if this is the case, and you did just join, and after another semester or two you are still completely unhappy, then consider dropping and becoming involved in something that you'll enjoy.
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Originally Posted by humblerumble View Post
The chapter I came in through was smaller, and full of older women, so I didnt recognize this at first.
She is in a grad chapter of an NPHC or NALFO organization. "Semesters" have no bearing on her life. She is already what's considered an alumna.

On another note, if this NPHC, I would love to know what she thinks are "unladylike" colors. I mean it's not like there's a sorority whose colors are black and gray.
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