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Originally Posted by LatinaAlumna
You have two choices:
1. Try to make the best of your experience in your NPC sorority. I am guessing that this is your first year of college, so you haven't given it much of a chance yet. If there are things you don't like about it, start changing things.
2. I believe that you can become "inactive" in NPC sororities. If you really don't want to continue after you've given it a chance, then just go inactive but don't try to join another sorority. Like I said before, most NALFO sororities will not consider a woman who is already an initiated member of another sorority.
...and whatever you do, for Pete's sake, please don't start "talking smack" about the NALFO sororities on your campus. For some reason, girls with "buyer's remorse" (as AKA Monet stated) tend to start acting unprofessionally towards the Latina sororities. Perhaps it makes them feel better in some way, but I've seen it happen way too many times. 
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Great advice! Unfortunately, you already picked your sorority. It's too late to decide that it's not for you if you've already been initiated. Now it's time to find your place or MAKE your place in that group. If you can't do that, sorority membership may not be for you. No group will necessarily give you what you are looking for...it's funny how the green grass on the other side of the fence doesn't look so green when you finally get on it.