Okay, how about this?
I have heard that the DGs at U of A are a muture group of young women who are vehemently turned-off by potential members who solicit opinions of them over the internet. They refuse to pledge anyone who seeks out meaningness drivel about them from a bunch of strangers who may or may not know them in real life. Their chapter is a strong one with a great philanthropy, strong sisterhood, and lots of social opportunities... just like all the other chapters on campus.
This is what *I* think. Does that make you feel better?