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Fleur brings up some important points.
Finding out what you want out of your college experience (and life) is something you need to do. Also, it sounds like you are trying too hard and over-thinking everything. Just be yourself and stop thinking about what everyone else wants or what they are thinking. You will also come across as more self-assured and not insecure. The foregoing advice is based on life experience and has nothing to do with sororities.
Also, (and this is advice I would give emphatically to my own daughter) NEVER make major decisions based on a boyfriend. Save that for the people to whom you will be committed to for life. You sacrifice for your children, husband, etc. Save this type of sacrific for later on in life. That was unfair of your boyfriend to make such a demand. However, we all live and learn painful lessons as we go.
If your depression does not subside, please, please get help.
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