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I suggest you get to know the sorority women that you have met. They will be able to give you more concrete advice about recruitment and expectations for an upperclassman. They may even be able to give you some insight on why you were cut before.
Honestly, your posts come off a little bit desperate - letting a boy influence your choices, no extracurriculars but reeeeally wanting to be in a sorority, stressing if you are too tan/gpa is too high, etc. Try to spend the summer (and fall if this is deferred recruitment) figuring out who you are and what you want to get out of college. Joining a sorority won't fix your problems - if anything it will bring out your insecurities, etc. However, it can be a wonderful experience if your expectations are realistic. Continue trying to meet sorority women to make friends anyways, and they may be able to help you in the next recruitment. Good luck!
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