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Well, I can only speak for myself. I am currently involoved with frat. Our relationship is not based on the blue and white bond. Anytime we have a problem I do not run to my chapter and spill the beans. The reason why because I am dating him not Zeta Phi Beta Sorority Inc.
Besides we have more in common than blue and white. I am not goign to lie, it is hard when you are dating frat. You have to set boundaries when it comes to relationships, Soror/Frat businees whether it is personal or not.
When it comes to your relationships have an understanding that your relationship is "yours" and not outsiders. That haas to be established int he beginning.
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