[Kevin]

Flynn, I'd be careful about what you put out on the internet. There can't be too many young ladies in this country sharing that same set of facts with you. Your posting about this in such a public place could have negative consequences for you down the road, particularly if the organization you want to be a part of learns you've posted here.

It's quite obvious that you're a fighter, but a word of advice -- know when to quit. At some point it becomes better to simply walk away from a situation and live your life rather than to dwell on it. Having a great time as an undergrad can be done with or without a sorority membership.