And again, for any pnm who has specific wants or needs: let your resume do the talking as well. BBYO or Young Life (as I remember the name of the organization), Christian Fellowship (although a member of my house AEPhi had an uncle who was a famous evangelical Christian minister), or Rabbi's assistant.
There is nothing wrong, in my opinion, to want to find the best home for you. And if one is more comfortable in a predominately Christian/Jewish/ Hindu/atheist sorority as long as the choice is made knowing what is involved and not bigotry make the choice. (As I mentioned in my recruitment story when I rushed many women went to college to meet their husband. So, Jewish women, who were excluded at that time from other houses on my campus as a rule, joined a Jewish house. We mixed with Jewish fraternities and many of us married the men we met there.)
But in full disclosure: I believe that my daughter will be rushing in the fall. She is interested in exploring all the houses. She wouldn't wear a Star of David because its not HER. In her case she wants a mixture of women...much like our family and neighborhood.
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