It's completely feasible for guys and girls to be friends...now, how that comes about can be varied.
When you think about it, there's a certain amount of attraction you have to someone of the opposite sex when you're friends with them - there's a part of them that you're attracted to, and that's what makes you want to have some sort of relationship with them. Now, the people that you actually date, you're attracted to more parts of them - more parts of their personality, appearance, whatever.
I'm friends with a bunch of girls that I don't see myself going out with - I just see us as good friends.
I'm not saying that it can't go the other way too though. My current girlfriend used to be one of my best friends at school, so it definitely could move onto something else...
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