i agree with KSU.... undergrad are suppose tu use their graduate members as a guide and to confide in when seeking advise, yet, at the same time undegrad and graduate chapter are different and handle and view things very differently. Therefore, grad is an option when looking for guidance and to be utilized as an advisory member. That doesn't mean that grad member have that right to take over the situation and handle it the way they want. You have to have confidence in your undergrad chapter. if you didn't then that's when grad steps in and speak with the executive board.