[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by TPA85

Alums are still members so I don't really know what you mean by "shouldn't" get involved. As an alum myself, some of the actives and pledge sisters come to me with questions/problems/etc and I help them with it or address it to the proper person... I feel like that's what we're here for...to be the pillars for the current actives to lean on...
Maybe I'm misunderstanding...
Feel free to elaborate/give an example or correct me if I am way off-base.

Helping an active sister is not the issue. Nor is lending an ear to an active who is having a problem.

I believe she's referring to the negative sort of involvement, such as:

*getting involved in any drama/gossip that's going on with the active girls.
*taking "sides" in said drama.
*discussing the drama with other alumnae.
*causing more drama.
*meddling in collegiate chapter issues (i.e. attempting to get involved in/control Membership Selection).
*generally not growing up and behaving like an alumna (and having "I think I'm still an active syndrome.")