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you know...my mother does that kind of thing often too. To be honest, I don't understand it at all, and it kind of freaks me out because I'm only 20 years old and I still have another year and probably an extra semester before i graduate. She also knows that I am all about going on to some sort of post-undergrad education, being whatever it is. So one day I decided that I would sit down and talk to her. I told her that I understand she wants me to be happy and that she wants to be a grandmother, but then i told her that she still has a daughter in the house to worry about and take care for. I also went on to tell her that it really stresses me out and/or bugs me when she is nagging how she wants to be grannie and she wants me to have a wife to bring around all the time. I basically told her when the time was right, it will happen, but that it would happen, but not until i'm comfortable and ready for it. Just tell her how you feel on the subject and hope that she understands what you are feeling.
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