When I was at this point in my life I had to realize that it was bigger than just bonding. As we all know that being in a sorority is like a business, so by putting the personal aside the first thing you have to acknowledge is whether or not you two ladies can work together. I'm from the South and I was raised that you don't have to like someone in order to do business with them, but you do have to respect that person. So my words of advice is to see if you two ladies even respect each other enough to try and to work together, and if so, then the personal will fall in place by your love, passion, and aspiration to become a member of the same org.