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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
i would make an appointment with the head of greek life(the greek life advisor) and explain the situation to her/him. ask his/her advice and then make your decision.
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I agree with FSUZeta. If you talk to 20 people about domestic violence, you will get 20 shades of opinion. Some are militant, others feel that you should get a protection order, others will not want to be near someone who's been a victim or survivor of it. I say this as someone who divorced her abuser.
If you haven't discussed the violence with a shelter, please do so. Take a Personal Protection class, for your physical AND mental safety.
In a perfect world, this would have nothing to do with Recruitment, but it might. Make an appointment with the Greek Advisor and discuss it with him or her. If you already have a counselor from a shelter or whatever, see if you could bring her to the meeting. Under the circumstances, forcing you to give your information to that one chapter is totally inexcusable!