[blessed_1]

I think that when it comes to YOUR letters you should want to take pride in the organization, when you joined, you kind of gave up your individuality in a sense becase ppl will refer to you as ____the xyz. remember everything is supposed to shape you in some type of way, even after you become a member of the organization. I am not saying you are a bad reflection on the sorority, but people look at ALL of the member and not just the individual....you gave up that right when you accepted the letters....or pursued the letters!!