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If the comments and judgments from sisters are typical - i.e. your example of someone being told to suck in her stomach, and they happen often, then, you might express your concerns to your standards officer...BUT, make sure you are clearly complaining about something like the stomach comment and not about dressing appropriately for chapter or being told to better represent your group when in a social setting.
As mentioned in earlier posts, sorority responsibilities are a good training ground for the real world. There are societal and corporate rules for the big world - You cannot just "be who you are and throw caution to the wind" in the adult world. It does not work like that...so consider these restrictions a practice round.
You can't always have everything on your terms...You can't be a hard worker and support your group, but stop short of cooperating 100%.
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