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					Originally Posted by  gee_ess
					 
				 
				How important are these invitation only events for a successful recruitment? Do girls who cannot attend feel like they still have a "good" rush in the fall? By good, I mean several choices... 
			
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 My sister was really worried about this when she rushed... as an out of stater she didn't know much of anyone and so she was only invited to these events at a couple of houses.  
The house she joined did not invite her to any events, even though they held them.  To me, this is proof that you can join a chapter without being invited to their pre-recruitment events.