if you feel that strongly that this pnm would negatively effect your chapter, then by all means let them know.
if your sorority allows collegians to write recommendations, you can write a "no rec." for this girl. if the chapter needs to know why, usually one of the alumna, will contact the rec. writer-the actual reasons may or may not be shared with the chapter.
if your sorority does not allow collegians to write recs., speak to one of your chapter advisors-preferably the recruitment/membership advisor or the general advisor. ask them to write the "no rec.".
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Last edited by FSUZeta; 03-16-2009 at 08:40 PM.
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