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Old 03-16-2009, 07:54 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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If this girls is someone whom you truly believe is going to be a detriment to the chapter, then you can certainly speak to them about it.

I have also heard of alumnae sending "No Recs"(the opposite for a rec) for PNMs when they are certain that they would not recommend a woman for membership. These typically require you to BE SPECIFIC about why a woman should not be considered.

For example, it has to be more than "she's a bitch." It has to be something concrete like "She lived with me and stole my clothes on several occasions and slept with my boyfriend."

Personally, I would just let her go through and let the chapter make it's own decisions. Since you're transferring, I feel like it's only right for you to just let the chips fall where they may. You're an alumna and part of becoming one, is learning that you need to let your collegiate chapter make it's own decisions about stuff like this, regardless of your opinions. If you speak to your chapter about her, understand that they ultimately will be the ones to make the decision.


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