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Believe me, if your philosophy professor showed up wearing a mini skirt and tube top, you WOULD'NT be able to LISTEN to HEAR her TALK! You'd be too busy wondering what crack did she SMOKE that morning!
Just because you're not a fan of wearing ties and suits doesn't mean that you cannot wear them! I'm not a fan of wearing dresses without having a full pair of pantyhoses on. But yet, I learn how to adjust to where I am and what I am doing as to what I am/am not willing to wear.
I once had a friend who kept trying to get me to wear a backless shirt--oh hell to the NO! I am a big girl--and I'm sorry, there are some things that shouldn't be seen and my back is one of them!
Again, it's about being able to adjust to where you are and what you are doing as to determine what it is that you should/shouldn't wear. I remember when I was in undergrad, outside of the dorm room, I never wore a pair of shorts on campus--and I went to school in Alabama! It's not that people on campus didn't I just didn't feel COMFORTABLE in them out of my dorm room.
I'm sorry, it's becoming apparent that you aren't a parent. There are some things that a parent should NOT let their child out of the house wearing! I'm sorry. As a parent, it is their responsibility to tell that child, hey, you aren't going anywhere looking like that with me! You aren't leaving the house looking like that! That is a parents right and role in being able to TEACH the child how to become AWARE of themselves, their surroundings, and their appearance!
Baggy pants and t-shirtrs and gym shoes shows a very ignant REFLECTION of you--despite what information you may have in your head! You could be Albert Einstein or Dr. King, however, many people aren't going to listen to WHAT YOU SAY first, they are going to JUDGE you first by what you are WEARING.
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