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I equate this whole discussion to shaking a baby to make it conform to your will (stop crying) verses feeding, diapering, cuddling, etc. to ensure the child's safety and comfort. There may be vastly different methods to achieve the end result but only the latter is socially (and legally) acceptable. I too am an alumnae of 15 years and actively involved with my collegiate chapter as an adviser. As an alumn, I would encourage you to do the same and get back in touch with your chapter if the whole yelling and physical demands are still occuring. It is not acceptable (in my opinion) and does not create the type of men that are desirable to work and live with later in life.
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