[GuitarGreek]

Sorry it’s been a while! But I’m glad everyone has enjoyed reading, and that people are appreciating the recap. I know I get confused reading stories, and I always forget about each chapter after a few days!

Ok, now on with the story...

Recap of rankings:

Zeta (Amazing time, talked with 2 sisters and a PNM - who I loved - felt good about my chances of being invited back. Philanthropy: Meant a lot to me for personal reasons)
Delta (Slow conversation that picked up, feeling better about the chapter but not sure of my overall feeling about it. Philanthropy: Did not know much about it, interested to learn more)
Alpha (Slow conversation but another sister helped it along, definitely in a better mood about this chapter after this round. Philanthropy: I could see myself working closely with it)


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Zeta
Delta

I wasn’t too disappointed that Alpha wasn’t on my list, but I was happy that I got to meet some great women from that chapter.

I was very excited to see that Zeta had invited me back. I knew I had made some great connections with the sisters, and I couldn’t have been happier to be able to attend their preference party. I was actually pretty happy to have Delta on there as well, as I really wanted to see where things went with this chapter. The girls were really sweet, and I could tell that they were trying very hard to make me feel at home with them. I felt as if this round would give me a definite idea as to where I wanted to be...

Round 3:

Zeta - When I arrived, I was greeted by the really funny girl that I met at the first party, but today she was a little more serious. We still laughed and joked around, but we both knew that preference round was supposed to be meaningful. She asked me a few questions about how recruitment had been, and had expressed to me that she knew how stressful it can be. While I knew that every sister had obviously been through recruitment in the past, it was comforting to have someone talk about it with me, and to know that someone understands what I was thinking and feeling. Without going into too much detail, she shared her own recruitment experience with me, and then went on to say how she ended up exactly where she was meant to be. She said that I’d find my home, wherever it was, and that I’d have the time of my life. It meant a lot to hear someone say that, in the middle of recruitment, understanding how competitive it can be. This was someone who obviously wanted some wonderful new sisters, but who understood that Greeks are one, no matter which letters they’re wearing. And although I had only talked to her once before, it seemed like I already knew her really well, and I thought that I could talk with her about anything. Then the ceremony started. It was BEAUTIFUL. Everything flowed wonderfully, and I knew that the sorority meant a lot to these girls. The part of the ceremony that truly involved the PNMs was PERFECT, and I definitely started to cry. I noticed that other PNMs and sisters were crying, also, and I could see how much this touched everyone in the room. When it was over, another sister who was standing near me kind of put her arm around me and just smiled. Just reading that here might sound creepy, but it actually wasn’t, and it meant a lot to me. Nothing had to be said between us... it just felt right. The time flew by, and I found myself not wanting to leave.

Delta - When I got here, I was able to talk to a sister that I hadn’t met before. She was so nice, and she really did everything to make sure I was having a good time. She briefly asked me some questions about myself, and then she talked to me about how much Delta means to her, and about some of the great times she had with her sisters. She told me how much she struggled through her first year of college, how homesick she was, and how her major had left her too busy to make friends at first. She said she went through recruitment clueless, much like I did, only to find the “true beauty” in everything a sorority has to offer. She said (and I’ll never forget this), “It’s like having the time of your life with your best friends, but also knowing that no matter where you are, and no matter what happens, you’ll always share a bond that no one can touch.” The ceremony was gorgeous, and it was adorable, and it allowed everyone to express how they felt about the sorority, and about each other. The whole thing fit perfectly with how the chapter was. It truly represented how these girls acted within the sorority and out. Some sisters shared personal stories, and while most of these experiences were happy, I found myself crying. And I don’t think I cried because of what the sorority meant to the sisters (even though it obviously meant a lot), I think I was crying because I could see what the sorority could do for me personally. I saw myself becoming a better person because of it. It was so touching how much everyone seemed to care for one another, no matter how poorly some PNMs had treated them throughout the week. They clearly had a strong bond that couldn’t be broken by a few people who couldn’t see what wonderful women they are. Like with Zeta, I found myself loving this chapter.


After preference, I felt as if I was exactly where I was meant to be. The problem was, I thought that I fit perfectly with two different sororities! I thought I was going to struggle through recruitment because I didn't receive enough invites, or because I was turned down by my favorites. Now I had two chapters that I loved, and I couldn’t choose between the two of them!

I closed my eyes, hoped that everything would work out in the end, and made my last-minute decision...